There I am, sitting in a brightly lit airplane cabin before take-off, reading my book as I wait for all the passengers to board and settle down and for the crew to prep for take-off.
As I sit there reading, a flight attendant comes up and turns the overhead light on for me even though I did not ask for it and I don’t need it yet.
All-in-all, the whole thing only takes but a few seconds, and yet this is my favourite part of the flight.
There is something incredibly comforting in the act — similar to how it felt when your parents tucked you in as a child. Each and every time, it gives me a flashback to being a child and a parent providing extra light to prevent eye-strain (usually accompanied with nagging if said parent was my mother).
The flight attendants are not required by law to turn it on; it is not something they have to do if they don’t feel like it. And yet many do. It is an act of pure, simple consideration for another human being.
Nowadays, I am too old for my parents to coddle me so. In fact, more often than not, I am the one turning the lights on for them instead of the other way around (longer arms).
In my flight yesterday — for the first time in a long time — no flight attendant came to turn my overhead light on before the pilot turned down the cabin lights for take-off. I was plunged into the cold darkness feeling entire bereft without my stolen moment of childlike serenity.
If you are a flight attendant, please make sure your passengers’ overhead lights are on if they are reading… who knows? One of them might be a twenty-something girl who is just trying to grab a small slice of times past.

November 7, 2008 at 12:12 am
hmmm, the stewardess acts as a comforting blanket? i shall never be able to look her in the eye again!
as stated, is an act of Law, cabin lights being dimmed. aircrew are giving you the best possible chances, should things go bump in the night, by letting your eyes adjust to the darkness, best done without the reading light on.
Ma&Pa tucking you in, may also of been comforting, but did also stop you rolling out of bed & from also going bump.
November 7, 2008 at 12:23 am
LOL… I never said that the flight attendants had to be female… can you still look the male ones in the eye?
Sense of serenity and sense of security are not the same. I get all warm and fuzzy and peace-y when tucked in. I feel all secure knowing my parents were in the room next door. Not the same.
So why do the lights get dimmed during take-off but not during landings?